While Hubby is picking dust particles from his teeth in Iraq, I am doing his dirty work over here...
The Sexy Guy loves his boys and loves his football, so last year he purchased season tickets to the local Championship League, Norwich City Football Club. My guys attend all home games (except on Sunday) and listen to the rest on the radio.
When we found out Hubby was deploying, one of the first things that went through their minds were that those season tickets that would sit idle.
He managed to arrange for a friend and his wife to take them-- which is asking a lot since there are the three boys and Miss Ky (of course we explained she wouldn't be going anymore).
Well, that first saturday without Dad rolled around and I had heard nothing from this couple. The Hubby kept emailing to see if the kids had been contacted. Nothing.
I texted the wife.
"Oh, there must have been a miscommunication. We didn't even know Sexy Guy had left".
"But he TALKED to you guys about it the day before he left!" Her husband had already left for the game.
My kids were dressed, sitting and waiting for a ride that wasn't coming. That saturday or any following saturdays.
Last week I decided to take matters into my own hands.
I stepped WAY out of my comfort zone: I called someone to take Miss Ky. I drove into a city I'm not comfortable driving in, during a busy traffic time, to end up somewhere I've never been. All in my hubby's British spec. car that I'm less than happy driving.
I escorted my deliriously happy boys into the football stadium and plopped down into my seat. Other than feeling like my knees were precariously close to my chin (surely I'm not the only long-legged person on this island), it was kind of exciting. I took pictures.
Only one problem.
No one told me you're not allowed to take pictures...
so the security people did. During the game. With a personal visit. I blush easily.
At least they didn't confiscate my card.
These shots weren't my technical best, but I caught an exciting moment.
Norwich was 1-0 and the excited spectators were chanting their praises and support.
Burnley was pressuring their way down the pitch--
David Marshall (Canary Goal Keeper) stopped a spectacular shot,
but spilled it.
Only seconds after the first photo... the crowd shouted in surprised disappointment.
I get it now. This father-son bonding thing.
I get how four people could stare straight ahead and make grunting noises rather than communicate verbally with one another and feel closer for having done so.
The Hubby has asked me if I want him to add another ticket to next year's pass.
I don't think so.
I'm going to drop back into the role of the one who catches their rush of adjectives as they spill into the house, tummies hungry and eyes shining.
That's my comfort zone.
Hosted by Cecily and MamaGeek
Aww. But what a good mommy you are. :)
ReplyDeleteyou're a great mommy!! british sports events are not for the fainthearted!!!!
ReplyDeleteNow if it were baseball...I'd be right there with them...that's MY comfort zone...but football? Neither your version or ours trips my trigger!
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
Sandi
ps
dump the so called friends is my advice, too!]
you go girl! um, yeah. :)
ReplyDeletehow fun for you (and the boys) and bummer on the friend that dropped the ball on your boys---literally this time, eh?
i'm not one for games either, and you REALLY stepped out of your comfort zone for your boys. what a mom!
I love football! I used to take K to watch Northampton, it is there that I met my Alan. What you need to do is let all your inhibitions go and shout, stamp, cheer and groan with the rest of them. I did and still do now even when listening to it on the radio!
ReplyDeleteI am with Sandi, drop the friends, they are not worth it!
I would want to pass on that too! So great that you did it for your boys though. Good job mom.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great story! Except for the friend that didn't show up! That will be a great memory for your boys!
ReplyDeletegreat pictures I remember going to see sheffield wednesday once
ReplyDeleteNext, how about you come with us to a game of Aussie Rules football?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure the boys were ecstatic that you took them.
ReplyDeleteI get it too...and am totally cool with my role as the one who stays with Evie. :)
ReplyDeleteGreat pictures...you rebel you!
the number of places you CAN'T take pictures now. it's been ruined for us photo-mad folks!
ReplyDeleteCool on you for trying. (I just made that up. Does it show? I'm trying on cool talk.)
ReplyDeleteSo--its killing me--why on EARTH can't you take pictures at the soccer game--whoops--football game??!! And how on EARTH do they regulate that rule with ALL those people?!
ReplyDeleteYour luck doesn't run real well over there--across the pond, does it? I'm sorry for loser friends. And if I was was there I would have gladly sacrificed all to take your boys to the game or spend the afternoon with Miss Ky.
Way to play the MOTHER OF THE YEAR card!
The big sexy guy and the little boys would probably love to have mom go along, that's why crockpots were invented. you could be a soccer mom.
ReplyDeleteThose people can bite me. And how awesome are you?????
ReplyDeleteI'm with you. I'd rather hang out at home and ask "how was the game?" at the end of the day.
ReplyDeleteWay to take one for the team! I am proud of you.
ReplyDeleteYou can't take pictures? What the...
They have more cameras in London than anywhere else in the world -- I guess as long as they belong to the government...
What a SHITTY mate that guy turned out to be, why did he agree and get your kids hopes all up, if he had no intentions of taking them anywhere? I can just picture the let down you must have felt. And cudos to you for pushing yourself waaay beyond your comfort zone. I know the panic of getting lost/driving vehicles I mistrust, and shoving myself clueless into alien situations (hubby being away more often than not, when you have four kids, your choices are limited).
ReplyDeleteI think you are a WONDERFUL mum - more importantly, I guess your kids do, too!
How cool - what a fun time - I like the pictures. I'd love to see a game like that some day!
ReplyDeleteAwesome job mom. I bet the boys loved it.
ReplyDeleteI wonder what the security would have done had you snapped a picture of them. What a silly rule.
You are such a caring mother! Your kids will remember you taking them long after your husband is back.
ReplyDeletegood momma!
ReplyDeleteWhat a shame the other guy dropped the ball!
ReplyDeleteGlad security didn't take your camera, you got some nice shots.
Way to go, taking the boys to the game! Good capturing the shots.... sucks that you aren't allowed to take photos.
ReplyDeleteNot abiding by the rules huh? My kinda woman!! giggling.
ReplyDeleteWhat a good Mom you are! Hugs..
Well, the shots you did get off are fun to look at. Plus, I think you'd be a good contender for the Mother of the Year award. Silly rule. If anything, you'd think they'd want more pictures taken so more people could know about the team and the sport through people's blogs like yours.
ReplyDeleteDude, you are such a cool Mom. That honestly, to me, looks like such a fun time. And security BETTER not touch your equipment - camera or otherwise! :)
ReplyDeleteYou are such a good mommy!!! You're boys think you're da bomb!! I'm sure of it.
ReplyDeleteHi, this is the bummer friend, shame that you didnt let us know he had gone and that you DIDNT reply to my text asking whether the boys wanted to go to the Tuesday game.
ReplyDeleteShame you had to put this on your blog and not speak directly to a FRIEND who has offered you help since sexy guy has been gone, but you don't reply!
Frindship works 2 ways!!
I do not understand why they wouldn't let you take pictures but I do understand that your kids will always remember the day you stepped outside of your comfort zone for them. Take care!
ReplyDeleteWow, you ROCK as a mommy! Good for you!!!!! seriously, you have mom of the year in the bag! Great job!
ReplyDeleteI did the same thing at an NBA game. What a great day with your boys.
ReplyDeleteYOU give me something to aspire to!!!
ReplyDeleteI have done this too...at the Musee D'orsee (sp?) in Paris. Quite embarrassing!
ReplyDeleteGood for you for taking matters into your hands! I'm sure it's an event your boys will never forget!
ReplyDeletehmmm... why aren't you allowed to take photos? Weird. Anyway, these aren't you 'technically best'???
ReplyDeleteThey looked great to me!
Can't wait to see your best!
Friends like that are more than slightly annoying. Good for you for taking matters into your own hands and stepping out of your comfort zone!
ReplyDeleteI feel special to see those top secret pictures! One great thing about watchign sports is getting to watching all those cuties on the field ;)
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry they bailed on you.
ReplyDeleteBut you are so awesome! What a trooper you are sticking it out and taking everyone :)
I bet they will remember you taking them years from now. Three cheers for you being such a trooper and such a wonderful Mom. Hip hip hurray! Hip hip hurray! Hip hip hurray!! :D
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