Unfortunately, most people don't understand that there is a lot of adjusting to be done, so during my husband's 14 "free" days, we were bombarded with other people's expectations.
This past weekend as we were fielding phone calls and demands on our time, we looked at each other and said, "Enough".
We loaded the car, contacted a hotel (not easy to find a place during school holidays-- everyone books months in advance) and set off.
* and I actually did receive one "wrist slapping" call on my mobile from someone who thought I neglected church duties by taking off with my family, but that's for another post--or not.
We headed here:

I wanted to call everyone I know to say, "Can you believe this?! I am standing at Stonehenge!" "I am standing at the place where Hardy's Tess is arrested for murdering her husband!" (Ok, NO ONE in my family would even get that. They actually did things with their lives rather than sit in trees and read books all day).
We checked into our room and were very pleased with how clean and comfortable they were, but the tummies were growling.

We had a wonderful meal in a pub called The Boot Inn -- a place that serves dishes too big for even super hungry people to finish.
Oh, and in case you're under the impression that England is the home of bland, tasteless food-- think again. Everything from Indian to Chinese (and more) can become "Take away" as well as the more traditional meals of Bangers and mash, Yorkshire puddings, and fish and chips.


This gargantuan dish was Miss Ky's child-size serving of Spaghetti Carbonara.
The next morning after a traditional English Breakfast,

(heart attack on a plate, most things are fried--I love this country)
we left with one goal in mind (and had hopes, but no concrete plans, of reaching a second destination):
BEACH.
And it was beautifully sunny.
And it was beautifully sunny.
Take note people, THIS day was our summer and if you were in the wrong part of the country, you missed it.
We caught a Punch and Judy Show...

that the Hubby enjoyed very much.

After a full day of swimming in the sea and trying to keep sand off of our blankets (I have no idea why I do that),
we jumped in the car to reach the second destination.
Lulworth Cove.
On the way, we saw a castle and were very tempted to stop for the jousting show, but I did have my heart set on taking a picture of Durdle Door.
Kiddos at Durdle Door

You have to work to get there...


but the views are worth it. I didn't feel so bad clutching my heart as I climbed the hill when kids were laying down all around me.
I'm sitting here smirking as realization hits,
I've just done the 2009 equivalent of inviting you over to suffer through our 1950's vacation slide show.
Yikes.
Yes, there's more (we're only into day two!), but I need to go into the kitchen to make us up some snacks if we're going to sit in front of the screen all day....but first,
I did touch this:
and if ANYONE can guess correctly what significance it holds in my photo library, there may be some chocolate in it for you...
"One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other."
I love summer holiday.





I'm so glad you were able to get away. Fourteen days isn't very much time to regroup and renew, is it? I'm also glad that you survived the hike back up that hill. You fooled me with the first two pix!
ReplyDeleteDon't know the meaning of the newel post, but maybe someday I'll know you well enough to understand its significance:)
Good for you and your family!! I would think it would be the most important task to take care of during your husband's 14 days...being together.
ReplyDeleteHave a great day!!
I was loving every single shot, right up until your revelation that brought it up short. I'm wondering now if I'm a putz for loving to see others' family vacation photos. But yours are more than that. They're history. And awesome.
ReplyDeleteAnd Holy Oversized Portions, Batman!
Okay, Round Two! I myself happen to love the idea of a 1950's vacation slideshow. I'll make the popcorn. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for you that you were able to pack up and head out. What a smart lady are you? Go ahead, pat yourself on the back, and here's a high five to boot.
I can't figure out the newel post either and I have to say, first time Google has failed me, lol.
Blessings,
Carolynn
Good for you! I'm so glad you took off to have some family time. I have big issues with family and friends pushing themselves on people that are going through a big transition (whether it be return from deployment, newlyweds, a new baby, or whatever else). Leave them alone unless they ask otherwise!
ReplyDeleteFabulous photos! :)
Wonderful pics!
ReplyDeleteOne of the reasons I hate cell phones is that people think that you are just dying to hear from them whenever they feel the need to call. I think we all need to be off that electronic tether and romp frequently.
Oh, I loved Tess! That book got me through a rough period a long time ago - nothing better than to be able to disappear into a book.
And I knew the quote at the end, but the newel has me stumped.
Made me so "homesick" I could cry.
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After viewing a travel dvd to England and an episode of "To the Manner Born" last night, I click on here to find my English holiday continuing on. Yippee!
ReplyDeleteFabulous photos, wonderful idea for an escape -- skip the post about the griping one at church and send along more of the photo show. I'll take a dose of 1950's style vacation sharing ANYTIME!!!
So wonderful to see you all together wreathed in smiles.
GOOD ON YOU!!!!! I'm so happy you guys got away. YOU totally needed it, in my opinion. Love the pictures and I can't wait to see more.
ReplyDeleteWowee!! Those are some big portions. Looked to me like Miss Ky could have gone swimming in that bowl of carbonara!
I'm clueless on the last pic. I'm sure it's something quite historically, or literatureally (haha!! don't you love the words I can create off the top of my head?) significant though. Please forgive my ignorance. :o)
So glad that you left, and had time with your family, and even shirked (smirk) your church duties.
ReplyDeleteThe pics are divine.
Haven't read Tess, I confess.
What a perfect idea...to get in the car and just enjoy the family and country side! Everybody else can just wait...family is always first!
ReplyDeleteGood for you! And bah to the nagging-whinging wrist-slappers.
ReplyDeleteStonehenge is really high on my list of places I want to see one day, so thanks for sharing it with me in the meantime!
i love that you love things that are so english, and so (occasionally) awful at the same time. bland food, rainy weather and long arduous walks to some of the most beautiful places and coastlines.
ReplyDeleteabout tess -- i love that woman. love her. dear old thomas hardy; i think he loved the english countryside almost as much as you do ;-) or perhaps "he" is where you first fell in love with it?
great photos and you absolutely made the right call in packing your bags and heading off for some much needed ... t i m e.
Hey, I loved the slide show!
ReplyDeleteYou really got that wrist slapping call?! Oh, don't get me started.
I am so glad you were able to get this time together. Times like this are why we do all the other things we do.
So glad you all escaped! Now tell us why touching the railing is so mysterious. Please?
ReplyDeletegood for you for getting away.
ReplyDeleteThe English senery is wonderful. It is such a pity that we do not get better weather.
ReplyDeleteGORGEOUS photos along the beach ~ tiaras
ReplyDeleteYay! I'm so glad is all is well with the world once again. Whew! Welcome home, soldier!
ReplyDeleteI only had two children but I swear that your trips sound like ours always did. Jam packed.
Thanks for sharing all the lovely pictures of the places I'd love to someday see....
Hey - If this is the worst suffering I have to endure over here @ your blog, then I'm a happy camper!
Nuts! He was just on leave! Oh well, at least it looked like a wonderful time spent together.
ReplyDeleteOh my what a wonderful vacation! I loved the photos. I hardly ever go anywhere so I live vicariously through everyone else's vacations. I'm glad you shared them. Looks like you had a fantastic time. :D
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