Here's the post I told Kari at I Struggle and Emerge I would do sometime over two weeks ago. And I have yet to play tag with Tammy at The Color of Home and pass on my shiny new award on here from Kathryn , one of my favorite reads. Only so many minutes in a curtain-climber packed day!
7 years, 7 months, 7 weeks, 7 days, 7 hours, 7 minutes to live!
7 years:
I would start traveling! Pompeii, Caribbean, Turkey, and every National Park in the U.S. I'd take the kids to Disney World for two weeks and let someone else clean up after us while we just laughed and played. I'd learn a foreign language and climb a mountain (a small one, I am in my forties, you know!). I'd start getting the stories behind the photos written down for the kids.
Sit in the audience for an Oprah Show (except when she's on her celebrity kick...), or Doctor Phil, or Deal or No Deal-- not yours, sorry, HATE Howie Mandel, but love Noel Edmunds over here. I'll eat in a Gordon Ramsay Restaurant on an evening when he's actually cooking.
7 months:
The panic sets in. I would make some letters or videos for the kids to have when they're older. Basically a "Things I wish I had known" thing with lots and lots of love and positive comments.
See every show in (on? at?) London's West End and on Broadway. I'd lie about my age and try out for American Idol (no, I can't sing), high-five Simon Cowell and tell Randy to stop saying "Yo dog", because it's aging him (and yes, I am SURE they'll believe I'm only 23).
7 weeks:
well, I'm going anyway, so I might as well lie on the beach with coconut oil containing only SPF 2 and tan away! I look so much better tanned. I would be super affectionate with my touchy-touchy husband. I don't like to be touched a lot (gee, I have had someone at my breast or hanging off of my leg every minute of every day for about 10 years now, I don't know why I don't like to be touched).
One of the days, I will sit by the window while the rain falls and read a good book and drink hot chocolate--without interruptions.
Go to the States and see my doggy. Bury my head in his fur until he gets tired of me hugging him.
I MISS MY DOG.
7 days:
spend every moment talking to my family and friends, eating rich foods, and laughing. I'd be slaughtering everyone at Risk and NOT feeling bad about it.
7 hours:
sit with my family and take in the last sunrise and watch the last sunset (can be done in four hours here in the winter time) and teach my children to see the beauty we live in.

7 minutes:
Well, since I don't have to rush around and pack, I imagine the last 7 minutes would be hugs, a few tears and lots of kisses. AND I would remind my family, ONE MORE TIME, that I want a big party, not some sad, drippy funeral.
Are you up for the challenge? I'd love to see what you come up with, so please drop me a comment if you take and post this challenge.

this is a great post. I think I will do it too... sometime when my brain is working. Right now all I can think of is... will I get to sleep in heaven?
ReplyDeleteSure you could pass for 23. Suuuurrreeee. Riiiiiiight. You go girl! *chuckle*
ReplyDeleteI want a party when I go too. My former boss's wife died a couple of years ago and she was a HOOT! That woman loved tequila - Patron Silver. He rented a party hall, had a catered buffet and the bar was stocked with 5 CASES (uhhh... 60 bottles) of tequila. She had been cremated and her urn was placed on the bar among 200+ always filled shot glasses. The drill was to toast her and take a shot. Repeat as necessary.
THAT was her "funeral" - it was a blast, a true celebration of her life with people passing around microphones to tell stories about her, laughing, crying, hugging. Probably the most "healing" type of funeral I've ever attended. You left a slight tipsy, okay alot tipsy, okay flat out falling down drunk... but that's besides the point. I wasn't sad... just incredibly glad to have known her for the time I did.
And even though her husband was a complete ass as my boss, he earned some bonus points by taking her out in style, the way she wanted it.
I'm not brave enough or in the right mindset yet to tackle the 7/7/7/7/7/7 task. I might do it later when I'm back to being my sarcastic self - I'm a tad too emotional and raw right now. Still enjoy readin' blogs though.
And I always enjoy yours. Hope you have a great day waaaaaaay over there.
Tammy
Amazing! I wish I had thought of some of those things when I was making my list.
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