Miss Ky goes to play group one day a week. I only take her because it's expected. Children start very early here and my friends were grilling me about when she would be starting... she's only 2.
So far, I take her in and she hardly looks my direction as I leave because she's so busy playing.
Today wasn't like that. Tears shot from her eyes like little daggers.
The thing is, she doesn't need to be there. It's not like I can get a lot accomplished in the two hours she's gone, so I'd be just as happy to bring her back home.
Yesterday, oldest son rang my mobile phone (he's in the states, remember?)
Him:"Where are you?"
Me (desperately trying to hear over the shouting crowd):"I'm at your brother's football game, what's up?"
Him:"A group of guys wearing masks just broke into my apartment, they kicked the door in."
Me (as I start jogging towards the shrubs so that I can hear better): WHA...?!"
I had him call 911 and 45 minutes later when no police had arrived, we called the New Mexico police department ourselves. from England.
Have you ever heard a mild mannered man make an international call to a police department when he's worried about his son? Don't mess with the Sexy Guy's kids.
J1 had been in the apartment, asleep in the living room. 6 guys with masks and hoodies smashed through his door and ran from room to room. Something told him to pretend he was asleep, so thank the Lord he listened to it. As he stirred a little and surprised them, they ran out of the house into a waiting car (that then proceeded to smash into a parked car as they left).
His apartment managers? They're gone on the weekends. There's no emergency number for maintenance. Basically if your apartment burns down on Saturday, they'll discover it on Monday morning. Great way to run a business, don't you think?
So he is in NM, alone with no front door.
For those of you thinking the great stress of motherhood goes away when the kids leave the terrible twos...think again.
I got a phone call. It was one of those automated calls, but before I could hang up, it told me that my name had been entered by one of several businesses I recognized and I was "the winner of a blahblah-several nights blah blah trip".
I have entered a few things recently-- most importantly a paid trip to NYC to see the premier of Twilight (but they started the drawing before the Twilight date was pushed back, so the trip isn't until December), and for free tickets for myself and 10 friends to the UK premiere of the movie.
So, thinking maybe it was one of those contests, I listened. It gave me a confirmation number and asked me to "press 5" for more information. You know those emails you get warning you about scams and how you shouldn't dial any number because then your phone gets linked to Timbuktu and you'll be charged? I hung up.
If I really won a prize, they'll call back, right?
I got another phone call.
On the other end was my friend in New Mexico I have been missing so terribly.
Her: "Guess where I am!"
Me: "LONDON?!!" (grabbing my purse and shutting off the tv)
Her: "No, I'm at (name of annual scrapbooking weekend we used to attend together)"
Me: "Oh".
salt in the wound. ouch.
I'm going back to bed. Wake me when it's tomorrow.

OMG that is a chilling tale. How scary is that and thank gawd they ran off! I'm sorry for your worries.
ReplyDeleteThank God your son is alright!!! What a nightmare! Yes, definitely go back to sleep and let's hope you have a wonderful stress-free day tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to take your baby back home do it. Your right she is a baby.
ReplyDeleteThat is about the most scariest story. Thank god he protected your son. His guardian angels were there in full force.
Going back to bed shows great wisdom, my recommendations exactly.
Bed sounds like it could be the safest place but who will pick Miss Ky up from nursery?
ReplyDeleteHope the day improves.
your "just another day" is too eventful! I would have take the girl home too, I wouldn't want to leave my girl crying for something that isn't that necessary....
ReplyDeleteand your son, boy! Thank God he is fine....was the damage severe? they came in for $$$ or did they 'kicked' the wrong door?
That's a really bad day! I am so sorry. I hope your boy is OK. My oldest is 24, I almost laugh when people complain how hard it is when they're 2. When they're 2 you can keep them safe, you make the rules. When they're older you just have to cross your fingers and pray.
ReplyDeleteJust a thought--maybe you should stop playgroup for a year? I would trust what you want to do and not worry about what's expected.
Hope today is a MUCH better day.
Wow, I'm so glad you son is alright. Now I fear ever letting my kids out of my house. Geez.
ReplyDeleteSo glad your son is alright - smart of him to pretend to be asleep... as if someone could sleep through a front door being bashed in. Scary!!!
ReplyDeleteHeart Attack City. That is horrible. Miss Ky can stay home. I said so.
ReplyDeleteNO WAY!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThat is just too freaking scary to even think about.
I am so glad he is okay.
I hope he is okay...and you!! I'm not going to say more because you need some SUGAR...HUGS!!!
ReplyDeleteI hope he is okay...and you!! I'm not going to say more because you need some SUGAR...HUGS!!!
ReplyDeleteOh my! So terrible that that happened to your son! I hope you had your NM friends check in on him and give him some "momish" loving - which he probably needs about now. I know you would give it to him if you were in NM yourself.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't I live in NM right now? I'd be sending Jon over RIGHT NOW...I'm impressed you could even put two words together after that phone call!
ReplyDeleteI hope he's alright. I'm sure glad he listened to that prompting.
wish i knew someone in NM that could help your son out...yousers! that would have been scary--and especially so for you guys not being near! good for him for listening to the spirit!
ReplyDeletethey must not have seen him on the couch because seriously... how could you NOT wake up when someone has just kicked in your door. did they take anything? do they think it was some fraternity prank or a serious robbery? is your son OK?
ReplyDeleteWow what a day!
ReplyDeleteThank you for visiting my blog. I am a little confused though. You said you come over from Mikkis to check out my awesome avatar. Well, I am not sure I know who Mikki is OR what an avatar is...thats not to say I don't have an avatar or a Mikki...just not sure. LOL! I am probably confusing you now! If you could just let me know that would be great! Love your blog btw!
Oh, mom. I am so sorry your cub is alone and not doing well. I'm so sorry. Anything I can do?
ReplyDeleteThat is so scary! I'm sorry you can't be there with him!
ReplyDeleteMine are 50 46 and 42 and I'm always worrying, that nasty nagging pain seldom goes away. But I try not to show it because hey say it puts pressure on them and they wont tell me anything. So I dont hear and I worry.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, but I do think 2years old is too young to start any sort of school. Only listen to your own voice, it will never steer you wrong.
Wow, that's a lot going on.
ReplyDeleteI would only send Ky if she likes it and since she doesn't...
I hope your son is ok. Keep us posted?
I could cry for you...this was such a heart wrenching post...only a mother could understand!
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Oh my gosh! I'm so glad your sons ok. That's so scary. Thank goodness they didn't hurt him. I'm sorry your buddy wasn't waiting for you to pick her up at the airport, that would have been cool. Hopefully, things will be better tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteOh dear God, how terrifying!
ReplyDeletePraying for your son's safety...
Oh my goodness! I hope that everything is better with your son. How scary!!
ReplyDeleteI hope your tomorrow is better.
OMG that is crazy. When it rains it pours eh. If it is any consolation I love your new template :). I hope things get better quickly.
ReplyDeleteMERCY!!!! what a brutal day!!!! I'll be praying for that son of yours!!
ReplyDeleteEvery bit of that is just horrible. A big hug to you, an dI hope the bed is warm.
ReplyDeleteWow, what a nightmare. The worst thing I can think of is not being in a position to help my kids when they really need it. This makes me not ever want to let them out of the door again (I'm sure that will change). I hope your son is doing better.
ReplyDeleteAnd his mother too.
Oh, fargadable! Hope he is OK. Hope he has a door. Hope you are OK. Holy...
ReplyDeleteWhat a rough day! I'm sorry to hear about what your son is going through. Yikes! How scary that must have been for him. I hope things are getting better by now.
ReplyDeleteCrikey, that sounds bad. Your poor son... and being so far away and all. I have 19 year old at uni and its hell. I'd much prefer him to be 4 and at home with me.
ReplyDeleteLove your blog.
I am so happy your son is okay, I had visions of all that could've gone wrong and want to go fix his door myself.
ReplyDeleteThat was terrifying about your son. I can't believe it would take 45 minutes for a police response either. Hope he is okay now?
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