Reasons Bloggers Go into Hiding

Do you remember last year when I moaned about a girlfriend my son was involved with? Do you remember how I was attacked for voicing my opinion and concerns about this girl and her parents? Well, I think I lost that anonymous reader (after they stuck their barbed words into my self doubts), but I wish he or she were here now.

I would tell Anonymous: That girl that I thought wasn't good for my son? The girl that I stated plainly was nice enough, my fears were about the relationship and how unhealthy it was? That girl has decided (again) that my son "is too good" for her and "deserves someone better" (all translated to: I'm young and fickle and have found someone else and I want to manipulate you as you've been manipulating me for these past couple of years).

You said, "...another slam at the girlfriend that's not good enough for your son! What if your son reads this post? What if the girl does? Do you even care? You seem very hateful."

Yep, hateful like a mother can be when she's afraid her emotionally imbalanced son is on the verge of suicide and she's 5000 miles away.

I was awakened by the phone at midnight and sat with him for over an hour as he talked about how he had no reason to keep moving forward. I encouraged him to get some medical help right away. He reassured me that he was going to sleep first and would do that first thing in the morning. At 7am, my email inbox had a message that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
He's alone. He's suicidal and I can't do a thing about it from here.

Ask me again how I feel about this girl. Just to avoid misunderstandings again-- the girl may be fine, the girl + my son is not. My son + any girl when he's struggling with depression is a bad mix, but a young girl living out Romeo and Juliet fantasies is extremely dangerous.

I'm 5000 miles away. What do I do?