So today, in lieu of a wasted day, I am listing the 200 great things in my life.
Not really-- I heard you cringe all the way over here.
I will however give you a couple of glimpses into things I have learned as a parent (because we all know that I am a current contender for a Mother of the Year award).

- Friends will come and go. You will wax and wane in importance in their lives, but your children are forever.
- Teachers will come and go. Teachers are pretty awesome for the career choices they've made, but they are not perfect. They have issues like the rest of us so don't automatically assume they are always right and your child is always wrong. Sometimes, you need to stand up for your child.
- Loyalty. Just as you like to hear your children tell their friends they know you're great, they like to hear you tell yours the same. An example: my friend Lori once dropped off a non-slumber party kid to his home and when the Mom asked if everything went alright, Lori replied, "Well, they were up pretty late, there was a lot of laughing" and the Mom smiled at her son and said, "Oh, he does have such an infectious laugh" with all the love and pride as if the kid had just saved a baby from a burning building.
- They grow fast. They stop wanting to come to your bed, to cuddle, to kiss at a much earlier age now. Don't waste a second of it. The dishes will still be there when they're in bed.
- and for my Hubby: Building forts, sleeping in the living room and making messes are what builds fond memories of "home". It cleans up. One day our house will be so clean we'll be begging neighborhood children to bring their hotwheels over for us to step on in the dark. For now, we're having a picnic in the living room and you're invited.

Yes! All these! So true, so true.... and yet so many parents out there are still complaining about their children, how messy the house is, how little time they have for themselves, etc....
ReplyDelete"Then don't have a kid!!!" goes screaming in my head before I walk away from all that....
Its sad to know that many were not prepared for what it takes to be a parent...
yep... one day my house will be spotless too :) but for now I'll try to win that mother-of-the-year award (ya right).
ReplyDeletehappy Canada day (yes... I know you aren't Canadian... but I am!)
Your cleverest: the cleanliness issue. I struggle to let it go but I just want a clean house, dammit. Why can't we have fun AND a clean house? I remind myself constantly and then a panic builds and I'm a bit of a monster banging around trying to pull myself a little closer to cleanliness.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful, meaningful and truthful post - thank you for sharing...it hit a cord with me.
ReplyDeleteYou're making me cry!
ReplyDeleteThe song doesn't help either. This is the song I always sang to my boys as babies. They still love it. They came running in the room when they heard it playing.
Sniff, sniff.
Happy 200!
very good lessons!
ReplyDeleteMy youngest son was the best little snuggler. He'd crawl in bed with us just about every morning - and all he wanted to do was snuggle up with one of us and go back to sleep. Ah. I miss that. I miss that a lot. I miss that a WHOLE lot. Especially now that he's 16 and thinks I'm an idiot. Can't wait until he's 25 and I'm not the biggest pain in the butt for him amymore. (sigh)
ReplyDelete:)
Kari
All good.
ReplyDeleteAll true.
Wonderful post! I'm enjoying your blog. You have a great looking family. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by to visit my blog the other day and for taking the time to comment.
I hope today was a bit brighter for you than yesterday was! :)
Oh. so. true. It truly does go by so fast. Poof and another year is gone!
ReplyDeleteYou are so right, we have to cherish these moments more and more even the life around us! Thanks for reminding.
ReplyDeleteAwwww. I love the last one! We had some great dining room forts when the kids were little. And tea parties on the living room floor. My boys loved tea parties. There's something seriously wrong with them.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful,but no my house will never be clean again. It's full of animals and teenagers. Even when the teens leave and that could be in a long time, their will be dogs, cats, fish, and hermit crabs. A picnic? What's for lunch?
ReplyDeleteExcellent advice. Truer words were never spoken.
ReplyDeleteFront room picnics are the best.
I am incredibly jealous. You're still in the running for Mother of the Year? Because I lose my chances every year around 6:15 AM January 1 when Micah wakes up.
ReplyDeleteThat was a really lovely post..... and so true.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on you 200th post by the way!
awh jeri,
ReplyDeletei love this scripture, too, that you quoted in the post title.
so cool to see that you know what matters. you rock, kathleen :)