*since I began this post, Hubby talked to BT and they're predicting our original hookup-- maybe as early as tomorrow!
My little boy is finally playing today. That was one nasty sick spell he had. It was like he went through three different illnesses. Thanks for your concern and kind thoughts.
2008 sucked.
Fine, I guess it's in all in the perspective one sees it. I could dwell on the fact that I lost a good friend (two actually because when the husband died, the wife I knew went as well), a sweet neighbor and a beloved uncle. I could focus on the blues that I just couldn't shake completely, or the homesickness that crept up out of nowhere and kicked me in the buttocks.
Or
I could give thanks for the miracle or waking up to my family each day; that we have the finances we need to bring our oldest to us for the holidays; for the convenience of email (to keep in touch with our parents and my Hubby when he's out playing in the middle east), and blogs.
Through the tragedy of Dave's death, our circle of friends here has grown tighter and more intimate. He'd like that.
So, 2008 was not all parties and laughs. I'm glad to see it go and look forward to this next year with great expectations.
I don't set New Year's goals, but do consider changes that could be made in my life.
For instance, there won't be weight loss goals, but I do want to live healthier.
I want to sing and dance more. I want to play more, entertain more and and see more England. I don't think that's too unrealistic...
How was 2008 for you? Anything you'd like to shake off? What would you like to see happen in 2009?

I feel the very same way about 2008 - see ya buh-bye now. I learned a lot, but they were painful lessons. I've got a 100% sunny outlook for 2009; I'm looking forward to applying those lessons (in a less painful way, lol!) and making the best of each new opportunity the Lord brings my way. Bring on the sunshine in '09.
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Jeri, you had to deal with a great deal in the past year. I am hoping 2009 will bring you much joy and many blessings! You are off to a great beginning in a brand new home! I'm so glad to hear your son is feeling better now. :)
ReplyDeleteI hope that 2009 proves to be a better year for all of us. Hope the move goes smoothly and the internet is reconnected quickly.
ReplyDeleteI am just as hopeful....and am sending good wishes for an easy move. Happy New Year.
ReplyDeleteYou've defintely seen your share of changes this year. 2009 will be a FANTASTIC year. I am so feeling that.
ReplyDeleteOMG! You got the house????? I am so incredibly excited for you all! I'd give a bundle to see the house after you all are moved in and wish I was there to help that move go easier on you.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, it's now 2009 and it looks to me as if you're all going to have a great year if getting your dream house is the way you start out.
Glad Sick Boy is on the mend. I swear it sounds like the same thing I had. Three illnesses all rolled into one.
Here's wishing you & your family nothing but the best for 2009!
I'm so happy for you that you get to be in your new house!
ReplyDeleteI hope 2009 holds much better things for you and your family!
Personally I'm with you. 2008 was not the world's best year, so 2009 has GOT to be better.
ReplyDeleteI hope the move goes smoothly.
2008 sucked. I break wind in its general direction. Here's hoping we all have great 09's.
ReplyDeletemay 2009 be way better than sucky 2008!! for you. for me. for everyone!! and if it isn't...let's all run off to an island somewhere!!
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2008 was fabulous because it's the year that I met you.
ReplyDeleteHave a wonderful 2009!
Happy 2009 to you and your family!!!
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Loved your honesty about the realities of 2008 and your lovely effort to focus on the poitive. I am with you on the no goals--I have goals--I just don't specifically sit down and write them out on January 1st. I am gald to say goodbye to 2008---I hope this year I can find more balance and peace in my life.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to YOU!!!!
well... I thought 2008 sucked. But 2009 isn't going so hot so far either.
ReplyDeleteread today's post to find out why but essentially we got stranded with a dead van.
sucks to be us.
happy new year!
Glad your boy is feeling better and you're in your new home.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year... may it bring you and yours much joy.
Love the picture of Ky. It illustrates that without the people, the love and the things that fill a home - without those, it is just a house, just a structure.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to you. Hugs.
I would love for my husband to be assigned back to IL where we are. If not, then I need a JOB-because we can't afford the physical separation any longer. That's on my priority list!
ReplyDelete2008 was a hard year for a lot of people. It was the first year in the 12 I've been married that I ever truly understood when someone says 'marriage is hard work'. It had never really been hard before but boy did we hit a bump in the road last year. I'm really glad to put that year behind me/us too- and also thankful that we came through it okay.
ReplyDeleteI can't WAIT to see all the pictures of the house once you get settled. And while you're seeing England, go to the Chelsea Garden Show for me and take LOTS of pictures because it's my dream vacation. Not sure when I'll ever get there but someday I desperately want to go.
Oh..my sweet friend..how are you?? So sorry 2008 lended us death. My butt being kicked still has a nice bruise on it..I won't forget already!!
ReplyDeleteI too do not like making big resolutions at this time...it's an everyday occurance. One that I need to build on as I challenge, learn and live with myself. You are not unrealistic at all. You make me laugh, cry, and bring peace to my heart when I read about your life. What a dear friend you have become.
In the hardest of times the Lord has provided me with the angel network I so desperately need...through faith, family, and friends..Thank you! Hugs...
What a nice looking family you have! You don't know me, but I happened upon your blog and had a fun visit here. I hope your new year in your new home turns out better than last year.
ReplyDeleteGood luck getting into your new place.
ReplyDeleteA lot did happen this year -glad to see you on the optimistic side.
Sometimes life is JUST NOT FAIR! and sometimes miracles happen. Most of us live in between, and my hope for 2009 is it will be very uneventful, no ups or downs just lots of smiles, laughter, singing and making lifetime friends.
ReplyDeleteHappy days and nights Jeri!
Hugs
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Pleased to see that your son is feeling better.
ReplyDeleteI was glad to see the back of 2008. Some of it was good but the last month in particular was hard work. I am hoping that things can only get better for all of us.
A Happy New Year to you and your family.
Yippee for you on your new house! I remember you SO wanted to be there. I am also happy to see the back end of 2008. Cheers to you, and blessings for a wonderful New Year:)
ReplyDeleteAre those candles in oranges? I have never seen anything like that before!
ReplyDelete2008 wasn't too bad for me and I hope 2009 is only better!
Happy New Year!
2007 was like that for me I was happy to ring in 2008 and it had its ups and down but for the most part it was a good year for us. I am excited to see what 2009 will bring for and definately excited that it will bring an end to this deployment that just seems never ending some days. I hope your move went smoothly and I cant wait to see some pictures of your new place. Enjoy some of England for me too!!
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for 2009. I just want my year to be a little more sane. I think that means I'll have to work harder all the time, but for some sanity, I think it might be worth it.
ReplyDeleteThat hallway shot is gorgeous, soft and yet haunting, all at the same time.
ReplyDeleteYour 2008, I think, was a little harder than mine. But a year of healthy living would be rather nice. And some love and sunshine thrown in would be welcome. Maybe even the odd thunderstorm, just to keep everything in perspective.
Good luck with the new place. Oh god, that kitchen! You have to show photos of your family at work at living in that kitchen!
Happy New Year to you Jeri. I hope your move went smoothly :)
ReplyDeleteHAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
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